Over the years I have read and re-read a small, edifying book on prayer by Metropolitan Anthony of blessed memory (Anthony Bloom) - Beginning To Pray
. The book includes the topics - The Absence of God, Knocking At The Door, Going Inward, Managing Time and Addressing God. In the introduction, he provides a picture of Christ's love for us in standing in our place. I will limit my words and leave you with those of Metropolitan Anthony...
. The book includes the topics - The Absence of God, Knocking At The Door, Going Inward, Managing Time and Addressing God. In the introduction, he provides a picture of Christ's love for us in standing in our place. I will limit my words and leave you with those of Metropolitan Anthony...I would like to illustrate this vision of a sacrifice and its consequences for us by something taken from the late history of the Russian Church. In the years of the Civil War when the opposing armies were contending for power, conquering and losing ground in the course of three years, a small town fell into the hands of the Red army which had been held by the remnants of the Imperial troops. A woman found herself there with her two small children, four and five years of age, in danger of death because her husband belonged to the opposite camp. She hid in an abandoned house hoping that the time would come when she would be able to escape. One evening a young woman of her own age, in the early twenties, knocked at the door and asked her whether she was so-and-so. When the mother said she was, the young woman warned her that she had been discovered and would be fetched that very night in order to be shot. The young woman added, 'You must escape at once'. The mother looked at the children and said, 'How could I?' The young neighbour, who thus far had been nothing but a physical neighbour, became at that moment the neighbour of the Gospel. She said, 'You can, because I will stay behind and call myself by your name when they come to fetch you'. 'But you will be shot,' said the mother. 'Yes, but I have no children'. And she stayed behind.
We can imagine what happened then. We can see the night coming, wrapping in darkness, in gloom, in cold and damp, this cottage. We can see there a woman who was waiting for her death to come and we can remember the Garden of Gethsemane. We can imagine this woman asking that this cup should pass her by and being met like Christ by divine silence. We can imagine her turning in intention towards those who might have supported her, but who were out of reach. The disciples of Christ slept; and she could turn to no one without betraying. We can imagine that more than once she prayed that at least her sacrifice should not be in vain, and here we can see the image of another man who stood before death and hesitated. The greatest of those born to a woman, John the Baptist, who as death was coming to him, sent two of his disciples to Christ to ask him, 'Is it really you, or should we expect another one?' If it is really you then all the sacrifices of my youth, all the years in the wilderness; all the hatred I was surrounded by; the coming of death; my diminishing in order that you might grow, is a blessedness; but if it is not you then I have lost my life, I have lived and I shall die in vain. Here again the prophet received the reply of the prophet, but no word of consolation.
This young woman probably asked herself more than once what would happen to the mother and the children when she was dead, and there was no reply except the word of Christ, 'No one has greater love than he who lays down his life for his friend'. Probably she thought more than once that in one minute she could be secure! It was enough to open the door and the moment she was in the street she no longer was that woman, she became herself again. It was enough to deny her false, her shared identity. We can see again one of the strongest men in history, Peter the apostle, challenged by a woman in the coldness of night and in his desperate loneliness denying in order to save his life. She died, shot. The mother and the children escaped, and here we see one more thing which will be the last I wish to mention.
St Paul tells us, 'It is no longer I who live, it is Christ who lives in me'. We often wonder at the meaning of these words. How can Christ live in one? We can have an inkling of this meaning from the life of this mother and her children. They remained alive because another died. They have remained aware throughout their lives that they lived on borrowed life. Their life was cut off the earth by the hatred of men and it was given back by the love of this woman. If they were alive it was because she had lived; her life was theirs. They had to live and fulfil her life. They had to live as she had taught them. Is not this something which we can learn also? Is not this what we must learn from the act of perfect solidarity which we find in the Incarnation, from the insuperable courage and love of God, from the Garden of Gethsemane and the death upon the Cross? Solidarity not only between ourselves, but with every man, because God is solid with the godless as with the saint. The victory of life is in us not only because we receive the miraculous gift of life from God, but because if we live as he taught us he will be alive in us, and we shall be alive in him, now and for all eternity.
(from I Believe in God by Metropolitan Anthony of Sourozh)
: Judo plays for points - jiu-jitsu plays "for keeps". However, someone with a good background in judo could easily transition to jiu-jitsu. 
) There are some martial arts schools which take one from column a and one from column b, etc cafeteria style and then name it after the founder of the school or something-jitsu or something-do . No need to learn aikido, karate, judo, hapkido - learn the modern art of blend-jitsu! There are other martial arts schools in which you have to be in great shape and/or very flexible to execute the moves. (Even if you can do all of the cool high kicks, arm bars, etc you may find them to be very impractical in a "no rules" / street situation) You also may be asked to learn complicated, multi-step techniques to escape from wrist locks, chokes, etc. Is there an art that is direct, easy to learn, no frills, and highly effective against any opponent? Yes.
that he had been given) The incredible effectiveness of Wing Chun is not dependent on size or strength; rather, it is based on proper body structure and positioning. I have seen first hand the delivery of a seemingly effortless "1 inch punch" by our instructor/sifu that has sent people flying backwards several feet. Below are some links to our local school Atlantic Warriors (Jacksonville, Florida), et al and a few articles about the school featured in the Florida Times-Union newspaper. These will give you a better idea of what Wing Chun is all about. Even if you are not in the Jacksonville area, there are links at the website which will help you find a school in your area. Arrange for a lesson and experience Wing Chun first hand.
A must see movie/biopic about the Wing Chun Grandmaster!